Sarah at My Home, Tony Cries, Medium Readings, Dreams, Being Cassandra

This week has been interesting. I got my query letters off and spent some of the week running around with my boy. Then Sarah finally brought my two goddess daughters over (goddess daughter number 3 was with Grandma). The youngest had had a virus most of the week and that had prevented Sarah from coming earlier. Sarah ended up spending the night.

When Tony came home he a was greeted by two women and an enthusiastic two year old. Kahlan crawled into his lap and was hugging on him and loving on him. I was feeding the baby while Sarah was doing other mommy things. I looked over and noticed that Tony looked like had a migriane so I asked him if he did and could I get him something. He picked up Kahlan and turned away from me, then I realized he was crying. I am unsure if he was crying because he would love to have another child or if he was just overwhelmed by the affections of a little girl. It was all in all quite touching.

For dinner I made lasagna. I used a recipe I got from a book called Basic Cooking by Jennifer L. Newens and Sebastien Dickhaut (neither have a web presence at this time). It has you make a béchamel sauce, which is a white sauce with nutmeg and lemon zest. You use this sauce as an additional layer and it adds a unique flavor to the lasagna. While we ate, we watched the first half of The Two Towers. This is Sarah's favorite of the trilogies. Then Sarah and I exchanged readings. Sarah used a new divinatory system that I was gifted a while back called the Sacred Circle Stones. It is a fabulous little oracle and Sarah really enjoyed using them. I used my deck, The Witches Taro। I have had this deck for years now and it is well worn and loved. I don't think Sarah or I heard anything that was surprising to us. This can be the trouble of reading for a friend.

The next day Sarah and I went shopping at Wal-mart and then went for sushi at The Green Tea, my favorite Sushi restaurant in my home town. She dropped off Connla and I. We spent the afternoon playing Pokemon Diamond and Pearle. It was kind of fun. Connla won and wouldn't give me a re-match. However, I am going to get him next time! Connla hasn't worked on his website recently. Maybe we can rectify that next time he is home. For now, he has gone to be with his dad for ten days and his being gone will unfortunately coincide with Tony traveling to California on business.
After Connla left for his dad's, I made some phone calls and then at six, I called a man who was looking to connect with his recently departed sister। With his sister, I had one of the most powerful connections I have ever had. Maybe she is so recently gone that she isn't controlling how much information is getting dumped or maybe she was just such a powerful entity that it was overwhelming. I can not be sure; however, I know it was a profound reading. The man I did the reading for was very grateful and told me that I "put him at ease and peace." That is why I do readings in the first place. It was nice to know the reading had been successful. The connection I made with this spirit was really significant and I asked her if she would aid me at some other time and she agreed. She evidently knew she would cross the veil and then linger deliberately to help others. It is a choice she has made. After the reading she stayed around the house, happy, I think to have done her first good deed.

I was really buzzed after the reading and took hours to come down. Finally, I crawled into the bed and had a series of dreams that were all the same.

I am in church with my mother. Everyone is talking about how cold it is, really cold, unusually cold. My mother seems happy that is cold and is talking about making a fire. In one of the dreams, we are looking at the chimney and it is clogged up with soot. I tell her that I am sure Dad would have one of those Chimney Sweep Logs and that we should use that first, before we start any other fires. I realize however, that a fire as already started in the fireplace and I start trying to clear the clogs. My mother joins me and we frantically try to clear the clogs; however, we are not successful and I wake up.

In other versions of this dream, I am in church and then my mother and I leave. I remember thinking how odd the sermon was and then I realize my father isn't there. I ask my mother where he is and she says he is at Mr. Camel's house. Sometimes, she would spell his name for me, Clamal, which is not how you spell camel. She would grow more and more frantic asking me what the number of Clamal or Camel was. I kept asking her why she thought I knew. I would wake up after my mother had grown so frantic that she is screaming at me. When I fell back asleep the dream would start again.

Finally, I took my attention off of my mother, in my dream state, determined to end this bizarre dream cycle I found myself in. I started looking around the room. I noticed a picture on the wall that looked like old art. It had camels in it. I got closer and closer and saw the camel had some kind of riding bridle on it and it had the world CAMEL across it. The picture seems familiar to me, like I had seen it before. I studied it and got closer and closer trying to remember why the picture looked familiar. Suddenly, in my dream I knew what Camel's number was and woke up.

I got dressed and then walked in the great room of our house where you can literally see the kitchen, dinning room and living room all from being in any of these areas. Tony was doing his breakfast dishes.

I announced, "My father is dying of lung cancer." Tony sat with me and asked me what I dreamed. I relayed the dream to him and then asked if I should bother telling my mother or not. We both decided that telling her would alleviate any regrets I may have later for not telling her. I would never even dream of telling my father, for reasons of my own.

Before I even had breakfast, I had called my mom. I told her about my dream and that I had just recently had a serious encounter with the other side. She gave me her I am extremely uncomfortable with you now and am going to get off the phone as quickly as possible response. I get this response all the time, especially when she calls me and asks me what I am doing and I say, "I am at a gathering" or "I am working on my book." Then she asks, "What's a gathering?" or "What book are you working on?" and I say, "A gathering is where pagans get together to learn, worship and fellowship" or "Mom, my book is about family's and spirituality - you know my witch book." Then she pauses and gets that fake cheery voice that tells me her incredible powers of denial have kicked in and says, "I have to go the library (store, cook dinner, get my hair done) now. I love you. Ba-bye!" The line goes dead and I know I have lost her.

Usually, I understand that I am delving into spirituality in ways that my mother doesn't want to know about. I know that she was raise in a Southern Baptist environment in the heart of the Deep South and that she went to Tennessee Temple University in Chattanooga, TN। I understand that I have been bold in my life where she has chosen a safer route. I know from my grandmother that the etheric and all the possibilities it unleashes scare her. I will always remember her saying to me, "When you have these dreams, these visions, these feelings, don't tell your mother. She is afraid. Don't you be afraid, just keep them in you heart like Mary. The Bible says, "But Mary kept all of these things, and pondered them in her heart." (King James Version, Luke 2:19)

"You keep them in your heart, you ponder them," she would tell me.

She went on to tell me to ponder things for a long time and that there would be a time when I wouldn't have to hid my pondering and could share it. Not everyone was like her and I and not everyone approved of such things, especially in the church.

Living in this world of magic and intuition. I am surrounded by people who love me and support my gifts. Tony, Connla, Sarah, Crystal, Cam, Becky, my entire Family Coven, FWTI and new people I meet, like the man I mediumed for just yesterday. Their love and support keep me from insanity. It hasn't always been like this.

I once went to a gathering of elders and fell into reading for them. Finally, one elder watched me read for someone else (with the querent's permission). When the reading was over, the elder crossed her arms and stared at me. Finally, she pointed at me and said, "You are...are...are a psychic!" I looked up at her and said, "Yes, isn't everyone here?" indicating the elders who were gathering around us, the witches, Wiccans and neo-pagans. She said, "No, you don't understand, you really are. I don't want anything to do with you now." With that she left the room, and relations between us were strained ever after. She was afraid, just as afraid as my own mother continues to be.

So here I am, years later, in a much better place and my mother is dismissing me and everything I have to tell her. I got to thinking about Cassandra in Greek mythology who was doomed to be a great prophetess no one ever believed. I had someone once call me Cassandra and even accuse that I must have been Cassandra in a past life. I don't know about all that; however, I can say that the gifts of my family line have been challenging. It then occurs to me that I have named my cats Morgana in honor of The Morrigan and Cassandra. One cat representing the ease in which The Morrigan walks between this world and the next and the other representing the lack of belief others have in the truly gifted. I had never even thought of this before.

Today, I sat with the phone in my hand and decided, I had to be bold again and recruit the one person my mother might listen to, my brother Dean.

I called Dean and we small talked about his boy Logan and his wife's current pregnancy, then I launched in my explanation for the call and asked him to work on my parents for me. Dean surprised me today. During my conversation, I worked in the word "pagan" and even talked freely about mother and I debating theology. I told him I wasn't credible because I had left the church. He mentioned our other sister, whom I haven't spoken to in years. What I got from Dean today was acceptance. He agreed with me that my dream was significant and he wasn't surprised at it's foretelling. I was elated and uplifted. I also knew, I had done all that I could.

Tony and I worked on the Jeep today which has some minor issues. We were test driving it after he had worked on it and talking more about the unusual dream and what connection it might have with the women I spoke with last night. I got that prickle as I asked the question, the one that tells me to pursue it, I am on to something. Tony and I switch who was driving and I called the querent from yesterday. I asked him if his sister had died of lung cancer and he said that his mother had, sort of. Both his mother and sister had died in March, years apart. They both had died of cancer. His mother's started in the colon and liver and traveled to the lungs. His sister's cancer had started in the liver and colon too. Both had discovered the cancer and quickly died, within six weeks of diagnosis.

I hung up and frantically called my brother back. I relayed the information to him. We were both shaken up. My mother has had liver issues for years and March is less than one year away. He assured me he would urge them both to get check ups. One thing I know is that Dean will hound my parents until they give in and he typically gets his way.

While I was writing this journal, I ran a search on clamal and clemal. Clamal Cell is a product that I got one random hit on. I have written the website to discover what dis-ease it is used to treat in some hopes that might be a further clue. I got no hits on clemal. I am also struck by the similarity to cell mal or bad cells. Cancer cells are certainly mal, very very mal. If anyone else has some suggestions about what clemal or clamal might mean, please post a comment! I would love to hear from you.

I have to send a blessed thank you to Joy, the sister I communicated with last night. I do think Joy stayed around my home and I do think she is responsible for the information I have received. I remember distinctly that she kept pointing to her back and saying that she had wings, despite the fact that I could not see them. In this case however, she was an angel who helped others. I hope this good deed is what earns her wings for her. Every time a bell rings, an angel gets her wings.

Query Letters

I did it. I sent query letters to five publishing houses and my information to Tom Morris. Tom has agreed to look over my proposal and ideas and offer his insight. I could not be more grateful.

I did it.

Sarah is in GA, Cub Scouts, Boys Coming of Age, Query Letters and a Writers' Identity

Sarah is in GA and was scheduled to make her first visit to my home when she was derailed by sick children and a broken washing machine. That turned out fine simply because I ended up taking Connla to the library and then am back home to work.

I have spent the morning setting up a LIVE Journal A lot of my friends from Starfest evidently LJ and use it as a source of communication. Kathryn Hinds suggested I get one too. I feel like I need another journal like I need a hole in my head. I Blogger, 360, MySpace and now I LJ. Jeez. I hope all these shameless self promotion pays off in the long run. I keep telling people I have entered the phase of "selling myself" in my quest for a book deal.

My Connla is a Weebelo and my days are number। This is the transition between Cub Scouts and Boy Scouts. The Boy Scouts rely less and less on women input, which I think is good and right. Boys need GOOD men to raise them to be the same. However, it was sad to see him cross over from Bear to Weebelo and know that in two years my role goes from active support to a more passive support. Suddenly, I am looking at him and thinking about Coming of Age rituals and passing him from boyhood to manhood. I so cherish his love and devotion and I worry about loosing that. His unfettered desire to shower love on me. How else can a woman get that except through the love of a son?

This week is suppose to be about Query Letters. These letters you send to publishers and agents when you are peddling your latest manuscript. I got stumped when everything I read told me to keep the query letter from sounding like the Book Proposal. I have been marinating on the problem for the past day or so and am about to tackle the problem. This query letter thing is a bit scary and makes the process real. If you risk nothing, then you gain nothing. However, if you risk nothing you don't get rejection letters either.

I think my hesitancy is bolstered by the idea of my identity as a writer। I want to be known as an author. I do not want to be known as a "fiction author" or a "non-fiction author" or a "Neo-Pagan author." It doesn't help that some people who know me seem to think my talents are best spent in fiction. Of course, none of them have bothered to read my non-fiction works, which in and of itself is discouraging.

Well, that is all I am inspired to write for now. Until next time, risk everything!

Starfest, Emerald Rose, Kathryn Hinds, Naked Pagans, Gossip, Sarah is in GA

Well, I am back from a very interesting gathering.

The gathering was fantastic as always. There was a great concert by Emerald Rose. Cam and I had fun dancing to our favorite song, Pagan Girl. We attended some great workshops about Stress Management, Metaphysic, Science and Paganism and beading. I had a really great time and enjoyed myself immensely. The main ritual was the bomb! We did a spiral dance and I really enjoyed sharing ritual with Tony, Ben and Becky. I can't wait to unwind again at that sacred place.

While at the gathering I ran into Kathryn Hinds who is an author who gave me all sorts of advice about publishing and some potential contacts to query. She is a great lady and author. I really appreciate her time and attention. Thanks Kathryn!

The other issue that came up during this gathering was skycladness. This gathering tends to attract very conservative people. The gathering itself is clothing option। However, I can count on one hand the number of times I have witnessed people topless or completely nude. Typically this is in the shower house, in the lake swimming or in the sweat lodge. (For the record, my son Connla was not with me this gathering and has not been in the past!). I ended up in a discussion about nakedness at gatherings and how I felt about it. My husband has been around naked pagans in the past usually around the drum circle or in sacred space. This weekend he ended up being asked to eat lunch with a beautiful naked women and it brought up some issues.

That got me to thinking...how much of pagans being naked is for shock value, power over others and attention getting and how much of being naked is for actual spiritual purposes? I am seriously struggling with this issue. On the one hand I completely agree that being naked is natural and a part of some peoples' spiritual path. They see being unclothed as a communion with Deity. On the other hand sometimes I met women and men who disrobe as a matter of shock value or an attempt to get attention or an attempt to have power over the opposite sex. It almost seems like they are saying, "Hey, look at me!!!"

I had hoped to discuss this issue at length and have my perspective heard। Unfortunately, I was disturbed by the violent reaction I got to the discussion. It is almost like if a pagan enjoys getting naked no one better even comment. I was actually told if you couldn't handled looking at naked bodies, then you weren't a pagan!

Tony likened it to smoking. He doesn't smoke and when he is in the presence of smokers he feels like he is forced to smoke. Tony happens to prefer to not see naked people when he is trying to be spiritual. It isn't a judgment on the activity just his personal preference. However, if he suggests this he is labeled a male chauvinist pig who isn't really a good pagan! Doesn't this smack of dogma? Where is the tolerance for other people's spiritual path and where is the compassion in helping others continue to shed the confines of this physical world to obtain spiritual enlightenment? It has made for some serious discussion and certainly caused me to pause and think things over. I am serious, could I please hear from you guys what your opinions are on this issue? Let's not shout and personally attack here, I am just seeking some information and other perspective.

On a completely different note, I ran into someone this gathering asking about gossip they had heard about Tony and I. Evidently Tony and I are accused of having a polyamorous relationship with a man and then dumping him to become monogamous - this is NOT true. Further I am accused of having energy that is anti-God or anti-male energy. This is also not true. I have always been a champion of the God having an equal place with the Goddess and have even done some very specific rituals meant to honor the God above the Goddess during the Sabbat celebrations. I have references if you want them. I have also been accused of prostilitizing. Again, this is not true. I feel I have started something that now has a board and life of its own. I am only someone who gives input into it. I do not think any of our members are trying to convert anyone to witchcraft. Further FWTI does not have a dogma of practice so there is no conversion necessary on that score.

The most disturbing gossip involved a man who was NOT and has NEVER been my High Priest claiming that he was. If you hear about this, please contact me to verify the validity of this claim. I will not tolerate someone taking credit for the work my High Priest did with me. I am no longer his student; however, all teachers deserve respect and no teacher deserves to have lies spread about the relationship they may or may not have had with their student. Do not believe the validity of any reported High Priests to myself or my husband without speaking with us please.

This entire weekend was about community. Dealing with those who have different perspectives. Learning to have compassion and tolerance and learning to leave room for others to spiritually evolve, even if they are doing it at a slower pace than others. It was about reputation and knowing that people are going to talk. The best we can hope for is to carry ourselves with as much dignity and respect as possible. We also have to have compassion and understanding for those who feel so isolated and lack a love of self that being angry and gossiping about others is the only thing they know to do. It was a long and enlightening weekend that ended with me going home to Sarah.

Sarah had moved from FL to GA and Tony and I went to help build furniture from kits, clean the house, unpack boxes, wrangle our Goddess Children and in general do whatever we could. I had to leave and tend my own Family Coven; however, I hope I left her better than when I had arrived. I am glad she is home.

Special shout out to my new Sister Witch Cam. You have become an unexpected reward to my personal spiritual journey. Much love and affection!

Pagan Unity Festival - Dorothy Morrison, MR Sellars, Clare Vaughn, John Michael Greer, Tish Owen - Friends Reunited

I am back from my recent trip to Nashville, TN where I attended Pagan Unity Festival. I was able to spend significant time with Dorothy Morrison and MR Sellars। Morrison and Sellars were a wealth of information and personal experience about publishing dos and don'ts. I could not be more grateful for their time and attention. I learned much that I will be putting into action and feel like I have met people who were as excited and passionate about publishing the written word as I am.

The festival itself was smaller than I had thought it would be। It was held at a beautiful location and was extremely well organized and run. Stone and I found ourselves a bit un-prepared when it came to feasting; however, the pleasant pagans there helped us out and we found both plates and silverware to get by with. We had a minor moment of unpleasantness caused by hard working volunteers colliding with needy festival goers. I learned a lot about what I won't do if I ever attend again. My advice? For Goddess sakes, bring your own water and don't go in the kitchen.

Other than that, however, it was extremely pleasant, well set up and well run. Tish Owen, the festival owner and organizer has written a book covering how to present a great event. I strongly recommend it. It is obvious that Owen knows what she is talking about! Chasing the Rainbow is a accumulation of Owen's experience. You can read a book review here।

Merchant Row was very small। I was disappointed that I didn't find the 3rd Degree pendant I am currently in the market for; however, I ran into Wilma, an acquaintance from Chattanooga, who owned the first metaphysical bookstore I ever stepped my big toe into. She had a small booth with great stuff and hasn't changed a bit!

The workshops were varied and I was extremely disappointed that I had missed the majority of the workshops presented by John Michael Greer on Druidry. I made the wondrous acquaintance of Myrddin and Narthariawen a few years back at a Pagan Pride Day। Up until this weekend, they were the only Druids I knew. Honestly, we hadn't ever actually discussed Druidry so I learned a lot this weekend about their beliefs. I finally got to ask about the validity of a workshop I went to a few years ago about the history of the Ancient Order of Druids in America. I was pleased to find that Greer was very forth coming and honest. There was no thinly veiled assumptions that the Order of Druids in America actually was "ancient" in terms of being many, many hundreds years old. I enjoyed Greer's background in history immensely and thoroughly enjoyed being among his caliber of intellectual study and skill.

I attended workshops by Morrison and Sellars and enjoyed the practicality of their approach, the depth of their knowledge on the subjects they presented and the easy manner in which they presented them। The only disturbing thing was how much alike Morrison and I were in appearance. The last time I saw her I was really taken by how strange it must be to have two short-silver-haired witches about the same height hugging each other. Take that and the fact that we are both tried and true Taurus, it was a bit eerier for me. Sellars was a delight as well. I appreciated how uplifting and supportive they both were. It was inspiring and refreshing. I came home ready to continue to chase the manifestation of publication.

There is a new book written by Clare Vaughn with some information contributed by John Michael Greer called, Pagan Prayer Beads. The book was unveiled at this gathering. I did not attend the workshop due to time constraints. Those of you who know me, know I have been making different types of pagan prayer beads and charms for years and years. The prayer bead section was the number one referenced section on the FWTI website for a time. I was interested to ask Vaughn and Greer about the relationship between their work and the work done by Reclaiming. Greer told me he was unaware that some publication had already covered something about pagan prayer beads. For general information, in The Pagan Book of Living and Dying by Starhawk, M. Macha Nightmare and the Reclaiming Collective, Donald L. Engstrom covers pagan prayer beads on pages 40 through 44, first published in 1997। I found Vaughn to be passionate and genuine and as equally brilliant as her husband. It is obvious why they are a match.

In addition to food, workshops and good information, I ran into Cherie, Leslie and Timothy, old acquaintances of mine from my days in Chattanooga। It was nice to see them looking well and happy. They were thoroughly engrossed in everything Greer had to say. It was fabulous to listen to Timothy discussing his various views on things once again.

I also finally caught back up with Sharon, my friend from my days in High School in Tucker in the mid '80s। She has two lovely children, a fabulous home and is a hard working small business owner these days. I am so proud to call her friend. She inspires me to do and be things I have yet to accomplish. Her support and love overwhelm me and her beauty is unchanged. If it hadn't been for Sharon, I would not have attend PUF in the first place. She goes to the Goddess and The Moon in Nashville to shop (Tish Owen is the store owner). I really enjoyed seeing Sharon. I even slept in the same bed we used to sleep in as teenagers. It was really funny and felt an awful lot like coming home. It is great to be loved unconditionally and accepted without prejudice.

This weekend I am off to teach Birthing Hereditary Witchcraft and spend some significant time with my Family Coven. I can't wait! I am, however, going to be very busy this week, consequently.

Book Proposal Finished, Junk Food & Stress, Jerry Falwell Farewell

I finished the book proposal for Family Coven: Birthing Hereditary Witchcraft। I couldn't have done it without Cam and Crystal - they are my girls! Cam worked hard at the editing, which is nice since she edits a newspaper for a living and Crystal wrote a Family Coven perspective I was missing, which was also nice.

I can't believe it is done। I was standing with Stone talking about sending it off and my heart felt like it fell right out of my chest and onto the dinning room floor. All I have to do is run it to Staples and have it printed. Then I am off this weekend to get some wise advice from published authors. Next week I may make changes and then I am mailing it off.


This stress has caused me to abandon my diet completely. At least I am still walking everyday. Does anyone have any suggestion about how to avoid junk food eating during times of stress?


In other news, Jerry Falwell died this week। I read an excellent post by a woman I know and respect about not bashing Falwell. She support a view that was pity on Falwell and all he didn't learn this lifetime. I have thought about this a lot this week. I even went and read some death articles about him. Then I found out one of my very good friend's mother passed away after a long battle with a serious illness. I never had the pleasure of meeting the Mother; however, you can't met her daughter without knowing mom was a powerful woman.

I considered these two deaths so close together and light years apart spiritually। Mom and daughter were close and loving. Mom was supportive and tolerant. Daughter is grieving a genuine grief of the one who has lost much. The grandson is now without an opportunity to know that part of his legacy.

Jerry Falwell was instrumental in legislating hate. Worse still, he preached it from the pulpit condemning to hell anyone who would dare challenge his theology. He was an oath breaker of large proportions. He would be happy if people like myself would shut up and die.

I have asked myself how fair it is to feel such pity and sadness when I think of my friend and her Mother, then turn around and feel a since of relief that a man who advocated hate and damnation is gone.

I've decide it is fair। Men like Falwell, when left unopposed, spread like wildfire। They burn down religious freedom with the same deadly consequences as the forest fires have done in my home state of Georgia। I can't help but think of the memoirs I read of people who were just regular Germans during the rise of Hitler. One professor wrote that he said nothing when national pride seem to mask prejudice and he said nothing as signs went up that began to slide the dials of prejudice to utter hate. He sat silent when they fired his Jewish colleague. When the government demanded the Jews wear stars, he hung his head and remained silent. When rumors spread of death camps and killing of Jews and those who sympathized with them, he rushed home at night and locked him and his family away, an attempt to bar the door from the truth. When they drug his neighbor into the street and shot him in the head, it was too late for any word to be said. He goes on to say that regular Germans didn't hate Jews or even want them dead. The crime of the average German was apathy.

I do not reveal in the loss of life; however, I will not be silent about any man whose hate and bigotry inspired others to the same. I will not pretend he was some nice guy with ideals that were off. I will not be apathetic. I hope his death is a sign that we are now moving toward less organize religion involved with our government, that the United States is moving away from the theocratic state President Bush has all but endorsed from his Oval Office. I hope this means that when people feel the need to object, they will have one less person condemning them to burn in hell forever simply because they do not agree with the "Moral Majority."

Plastic Bags - Picasa - Mother's Day - My Birthday

I am really excited today about two different products I just happened upon in the past 48 hours. One product saves the environment at a great price and the other product helped me find photos I had lost in the vast space of my own hard drive.

My girlfriend, Penne brought a ton of things over to celebrate my birthday on Saturday in re-usable grocery bags from Kroger. I asked her how much they were and she said they were $1 at Kroger!

So, today, on my way to do my bi-weekly shopping, I stopped in and bought six bags to try them out. I have been using canvas bags that I bought from Hobby Lobby and Ingles. I have already ripped the handles right off some of the Ingles canvas bags and, because of the color, the other bags are beginning to look, well, yucky. My Ingles bags cost me $4.99 a piece. I bought them over several weeks of shopping when I decided to cut my own grocery bag dependency.

When I sat down to write about them, I went to the website advertised on the side of the bag called Bring Your Own Bag (BYOB). I was ecstatic about the website, the great information they give and the idea in general.

These BYOB bags are the greatest! They have a true rectangular bottom, a little zipper pocket on the inside and sturdy handles. I took my six BYOB bags and didn't use any of my other canvas bags at all - now that is my bi-weekly shopping trip there. Further they fit into the cart so nicely. They are just the right size! I know I sound like an infomercial. I don't care. I love the environment and I love the fact that this is now available and for such a great price! Let me give you some statistics that I have learned from BYOB.

Did you know? (these facts are from BYOB)

P It takes plastic bags 15 to 1000 years break down in the environment

P Plastic bags photodegrade ~ breaking down into smaller and smaller toxic bits contaminating soil and waterways, polluting our soil, rivers, lakes and oceans.

P Production of plastic bags requires vast amounts of oil.


P North America goes through 100 billion plastic shopping bags annually.

P Hundreds of thousands of sea turtles, whales and other marine mammals dies every year from eating discarded plastic bags mistaken for food.

P Each year an estimated 500 billion - 1 trillion plastic bags are consumed worldwide. That translates to over one million per minute.

P If 1 person uses BYOB bags, they will save the use of 250 bags per year.

P If a family of 3 uses BYOB bags, they will save the use of 750 bags per year.

P If a family of 4 uses BYOB bags, they will save the use of 1000 bags per year.

P If a family of 6 uses BYOB bags, they will save the use of 1500 bags per year.


Another great thing BYOB does, is a form they have on their website that you can print out, fill out and give to your local grocers. My only complaint is that the form is done in color with lots of graphics. BYOB obviously isn't remembering how much color ink costs the average consumer and forgetting the impact empty cartridges have on the environment. Still, you can print it in black and white or simply copy the letter itself into Word, or whatever you use, and print it plain. This is such a simple thing that we can all do. You guys get to Kroger and buy those bags! For $10 you can physically contribute to saving the environment. The environment is worth $10 to you, isn't it?

The second product I am excited about is FREE! That's right, complete free! Picasa is a program I downloaded after following some links on Blogger। I downloaded the file initially to make it easier to put pictures up on Blogger. Unfortunately that feature is no longer available because of incompatibility between Picasa and the new Blogger programs.

HOWEVER! The program completely rocks! It will scan your hard drive and download any jpg you have. It places these pictures in a library that shows thumbnails of the pictures and allows you complete management. You can delete files completely from your computer or simply tell Picasa to ignore a file you know you won't need to reference.

The greatest things is this: it puts your pictures into the Picasa library BY DATE! That means my Birthday pictures are the first ones I see and then the other pictures are available by year and folder. With the Manage Folder tool you can manage the folders your pictures are in and manage the way they are saved. You can edit pictures in Picasa, too! Easily set your favorite picture as your desktop background or order prints right from the program! Using a program called Hello! you can share your pictures with friends via the Internet. All in all, I have been really pleased, even though I can't use the program the way I wanted to.

Mother's Day was today and my family went grocery shopping with me, helped me make my favorite meal, cleaned the kitchen, water my plants and let me take a nap, all in all, a very nice day indeed. A friend of mine found out she was loosing her mother to her fight with brain cancer today. I can't get the frantic sound of her voice out of my head. I could feel her panic at the thought of not having a mommy anymore. I have been sending her lots of energy and experiencing the feelings of overwhelming sadness I felt in her soul.

My birthday celebrations are officially over. Yesterday my girlfriend, Penne, threw me a wild party. We had a beautiful piñata that was shaped like a star. We had bubbles at the party along with balloons and a helium tank which is just fun anyway. Tony, Connla, Penne and I all took a whack at the piñata. Since we were outside, we attracted a crowd of kids so we invited them to whack it to. It took Tony taking his cedar staff to the thing to bust it open. It was a sight! I got glow-in-the-dark bracelets from the piñata. I can't wait to share them with my friends at gathering we are all going to at the end of May!